Why use a strap-on for sex? Dildos and strap-ons alike are used by, well, anyone and everyone who fancies it. They’re mostly associated with lesbians, and that’s probably thanks to good old porn.

Sex educator Javay Frye-Nekrasova shares everything you need to know about using a strap-on for the first time.

Whether you’re a top, bottom, or vers, here’s everything you need to know about how to buy, use, and clean your strap-on according to experts. What is a strap-on?